Player Moves: Lesson 1 - Wrestling, Tickling, and Hitting

Player Moves. What are they? Player Moves include gestures, actions, and hints men display in order to romance, sex, or seduce women. Ironically, some women seem to be completely oblivious to them. So I, on behalf of both sexes, am here to bring them to light. The first one is "Wrestling, Tickling, Hitting."

Wrestling, tickling, or hitting breaks the touching barrier in a SEEMINGLY non-sleazy, unobjective, and innocent way. But, in fact, it is completely intentional. Females and males alike use this opportunity to investigate the other's body and/or slyly get a perverted touch in. Think I'm making this up? Reminisce on the last time you wrestled, tickled, or play fought with a significant other or someone you liked or who liked you. Were you INADVERTENTLY touched on a sensitive area of your body (thighs, breasts, butt, neck, groin, chest)?

Now one of two things happens if you all were tickling. The parties involve stop, break away, and laugh. They say, "That was fun." and move on. Or, somehow, one party ends up on top of the other party or at least face to face with them. There is a silence (may or may not be awkward) with the sound of heavy breathing as the only background noise. And then physical affection begins (kissing, touching, sex,...).

Wrestling and hitting can produce the same actions as tickling. However, women can have a different motivation. Sometimes when women play fight or wrestle, especially when they don't really know the other person, they are simply testing to see what would happen if you two ever got into physically. "Is he going to hit me back?" "How hard does he hit?" "What can I get away with?" "Could I dominate him if I wanted/needed to?" "Does he know when to stop?" If you pass her tests, you have moved closer to wooing her.

Final point: Men get "excited" when they touch a female in this any of the three activities. It's not within our control. Physically touching a woman outside of the normal, social methods usually means sex to us. But if sex doesn't happen, it usually increases the sexual tension. So if nothing happens the first time, count on the next time you see each other to be on another level (granted everything with well and within both parties' borders, lol)

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